{"id":5432,"date":"2017-07-09T22:45:31","date_gmt":"2017-07-09T19:45:31","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/?p=5432"},"modified":"2017-09-18T09:17:50","modified_gmt":"2017-09-18T06:17:50","slug":"caruta-virgule-subiectivism","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/?p=5432","title":{"rendered":"C\u0103ru\u021ba cu virgule &#8211; Subiectivism"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/image-12.jpeg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-0\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"http:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/image-12.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"284\" height=\"177\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5433 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 284px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 284\/177;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/07\/image-12.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"284\" height=\"177\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-5433\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><br \/>\n     Cred despre mine c\u0103 sunt un tip pozitiv, care crede c\u0103 oamenii pot fi \u0219i buni, c\u0103 dincolo de orice r\u0103utate a zilelor noastre, exist\u0103 \u0219i o f\u0103r\u00e2m\u0103 de bun\u0103tate, \u00een toate&#8230; E adev\u0103rat c\u0103 sunt subiectiv \u00een aprecierea mea \u0219i c\u0103 mi-am luat-o grav uneori din cauza asta, dar m\u0103 \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u021b\u00e2nez s\u0103 cred \u00een continuare. De aceea, \u00een comentariile mele de pe aici sau din c\u0103r\u021bile mele (moaaam\u0103, ce tare! auzi..,,c\u0103r\u021bile&#8221;) se poate \u00eentrez\u0103ri acea raz\u0103 de speran\u021b\u0103 \u00een g\u0103sirea acelor lucruri frumoase printre at\u00e2tea r\u0103ut\u0103\u021bi agasante. Am continuat s\u0103 cred c\u0103 UNII oameni pot fi a\u0219a cum eu \u00eei v\u0103d: buni prieteni, genero\u0219i, de \u00eencredere.<br \/>\n    E adev\u0103rat c\u0103 eu pot fi subiectiv \u00een aprecierile mele, la fel cum subiectivi pot fi \u0219i cei de la care aud p\u0103reri diferite de a mea la adresa unor prieteni. Sunt de acord c\u0103 subiectivismul poate d\u0103una grav \u00een rela\u021biile dintre oameni \u0219i c\u0103 el poate fi chiar distrug\u0103tor. De aceea, m\u0103 surprind uimit de unele p\u0103reri foarte proaste ale unora despre cei pe care eu \u00eei consider prieteni. Din r\u0103utate, invidie, ignoran\u021b\u0103, sau chiar ur\u0103 visceral\u0103, unii se arunc\u0103 s\u0103 fac\u0103 aprecieri despre cineva f\u0103r\u0103 chiar a-l cunoa\u0219te. Se bazeaz\u0103 pe tipare comode de g\u00e2ndire, pe fr\u00e2nturi de vorbe (neap\u0103rat ur\u00e2te!) auzite la col\u021b de strad\u0103 sau la un pahar&#8230; Judec\u0103tori aspri \u00eentotdeauna ai altora, \u00eenfiereaz\u0103 cu m\u00e2nie proletar\u0103, cu pumni \u00eencle\u0219ta\u021bi \u0219i ochii ro\u0219ii de ur\u0103, tot ce face x sau y. Se \u00eenc\u0103p\u0103\u021b\u00e2neaz\u0103 s\u0103 caute \u0219i s\u0103 g\u0103seasc\u0103 cu orice pre\u021b doar partea ur\u00e2t\u0103 a faptelor cuiva, iar dac\u0103 n-o pot g\u0103si, o inventeaz\u0103. Ace\u0219ti oameni, uit\u0103 s\u0103 se vad\u0103 mai \u00eent\u00e2i pe ei, s\u0103-\u0219i pun\u0103 mai \u00eent\u00e2i ei \u00een balan\u021b\u0103 calit\u0103\u021bile \u0219i defectele. E foarte greu s\u0103 fii obiectiv cu tine \u00eensu\u021bi \u00eentr-o lume de egoi\u0219ti, egocentrici \u0219i paranoici, \u00een care \u00eentotdeauna cel\u0103lalt e cel mai r\u0103u, cel\u0103lalt e vinovat de ceea ce \u021bi se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u021bie. NICIODAT\u0102, dar niciodat\u0103, EU nu sunt vinovat de nimic, \u00ceNTOTDEAUNA e ALTCINEVA de vin\u0103! Sigur c\u0103 vremurile de azi te \u00eendeamn\u0103 s\u0103 fii circumspect \u0219i prev\u0103z\u0103tor c\u00e2nd e vorba de oameni \u0219i caracterul lor! Sigur c\u0103 exist\u0103 nenum\u0103rate exemple de oameni care au \u00een\u0219elat \u00eencrederea ce le-a fost acordat\u0103 de prieteni \u0219i apropia\u021bi. \u00cens\u0103 cine poate spune c\u0103 e at\u00e2t de ,,curat&#8221; \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 arunce piatra? \u0218i aici apare, cred eu, ceea ce se nume\u0219te compromisul&#8230; Compromisul a ap\u0103rut tocmai din cauz\u0103c\u0103 noi suntem at\u00e2t de diferi\u021bi. Umanitatea \u00eens\u0103\u0219i s-a n\u0103scut dintr-un mare compromis \u0219i de atunci facem compromisuri la orice pas: pentru a tr\u0103i, pentru a iubi, pentru a avea prieteni sau pentru a nu avea. De\u0219i \u00een unele cazuri se mai poate numi \u0219i toleran\u021b\u0103, compromisul st\u0103 la baza existen\u021bei noastre. P\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i cei mai \u00eend\u00e2rji\u021bi ap\u0103r\u0103tori de principii morale, \u00eei cad victime, la un moment dat. Ceea ce e cu adev\u0103rat ur\u00e2t e c\u0103, atunci c\u00e2nd, a face compromisuri devine un principiu de via\u021b\u0103, un reflex&#8230;<br \/>\n      Verticalitatea, moralitatea, etica \u0219i echitatea sunt azi ,,tare&#8221; ale unora, ,,dizabilit\u0103\u021bi&#8221; din cauza c\u0103rora sunt b\u0103tu\u021bi cu pietre la zidul infamiei, marginaliza\u021bi, exclu\u0219i. Pentru c\u0103 unii ca ei, ,,infecta\u021bi&#8221; cu a\u0219a ceva, sunt periculo\u0219i \u0219i trebuie izola\u021bi. Pentru c\u0103 nou\u0103, celoral\u021bi ne e fric\u0103 s\u0103 nu ne contamin\u0103m \u0219i s\u0103 redescoperim acel accesoriu numit con\u0219tiin\u021b\u0103, pe care l-am \u00eengropat ad\u00e2nc \u00een mald\u0103rul de carne, oase \u0219i umori apoase care suntem&#8230;<br \/>\n     Pffiiiuuu!&#8230; Ce g\u00e2nduri!! O fi de la vremea asta na\u0219pa?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Cred despre mine c\u0103 sunt un tip pozitiv, care crede c\u0103 oamenii pot fi \u0219i buni, c\u0103 dincolo de orice<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12,"featured_media":5403,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"colormag_page_container_layout":"default_layout","colormag_page_sidebar_layout":"default_layout","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"video_url":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[316,2,1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5432"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/12"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5432"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5432\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5434,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5432\/revisions\/5434"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5403"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5432"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5432"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5432"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}