{"id":5301,"date":"2017-06-14T23:55:18","date_gmt":"2017-06-14T20:55:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/?p=5301"},"modified":"2017-06-21T10:48:17","modified_gmt":"2017-06-21T07:48:17","slug":"spatii-culturale-38-ciudatenii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/?p=5301","title":{"rendered":"Spa\u021bii culturale nr. 38 (bis) &#8211; Ciud\u0103\u021benii"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/image-12-e1485538078727.jpeg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-0\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"http:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/image-12-300x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-4796 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 300px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 300\/300;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/image-12-300x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-4796\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><br \/>\n     Un t\u00e2n\u0103r din Gala\u0163i \u00ee\u015fi scoate la licita\u0163ie virginitatea. Asta da \u015ftire de pres\u0103, preluat\u0103 de mai multe canale TV, spre bucuria \u015fi interesul \u00eentregului popor amator de nout\u0103\u0163i! C\u0103 licita\u0163ia \u00eencepe de la 2000 de euro, c\u0103 t\u00e2n\u0103rul are no\u0163iuni de marketing \u015fi suficient tupeu ca s\u0103 se foloseasc\u0103 de ele conteaz\u0103 prea pu\u0163in. Conteaz\u0103, de exemplu, c\u0103 mentalitatea rom\u00e2nului a \u00eenceput s\u0103 se schimbe, s\u0103 devin\u0103 una european\u0103 \u015fi chiar s\u0103 dep\u0103\u015feasc\u0103 grani\u0163ele Europei, s\u0103 semene cumva cu modul de g\u00e2ndire american, unde orice este posibil, inclusiv s\u0103-\u0163i asiguri, de exemplu, pe bani grei, un pachet de \u0163ig\u0103ri scumpe, s\u0103 fumezi apoi \u0163ig\u0103rile \u015fi s\u0103 pretinzi desp\u0103gubiri, iar, \u00een urma procesului cu compania de asigur\u0103ri, s\u0103 \u015fi c\u00e2\u015ftigi acest proces. Modul de g\u00e2ndire rom\u00e2nesc \u201etradi\u0163ional\u201d lua \u00een discu\u0163ie numai virginitatea fetelor: ele erau nevoite s\u0103 demonstreze, \u00een noaptea nun\u0163ii, c\u0103 nimeni nu s-a folosit \u00eenainte de trupul lor, c\u0103 sunt neprih\u0103nite, prin urmare, \u015fi c\u0103 pot intra \u00een noua cas\u0103 ca proprietate f\u0103r\u0103 cusur a so\u0163ului \u015fi a socrilor. \u00cen caz c\u0103 cearceafurile nup\u0163iale nu se p\u0103tau corespunz\u0103tor, urma scandalul public, trimiterea (pe grap\u0103 sau \u00een c\u0103ru\u0163a tras\u0103 de m\u0103gari, cu alai \u015fi mult\u0103 ru\u015fine) la casa p\u0103rinteasc\u0103, fire\u015fte, cu solicitarea return\u0103rii tuturor cheltuielilor f\u0103cute cu nunta. Nu se f\u0103cea caz de virginitatea b\u0103rbatului, ci, dimpotriv\u0103, experien\u0163ele lui sexuale de p\u00e2n\u0103 atunci (\u015fi chiar \u015fi dup\u0103 aceea) erau considerate normale \u015fi fire\u015fti, chiar prilej de m\u00e2ndrie masculin\u0103, ca expresie a unei discrimin\u0103ri care a rezistat, la noi, secole \u00eentregi.<br \/>\n      Povestea cu licita\u0163ia virginit\u0103\u0163ii vine, probabil, din \u0163\u0103rile asiatice; t\u00e2n\u0103rul din Gala\u0163i o fi v\u0103zut un film de oarecare succes, \u201eMemoriile unei ghei\u015fe\u201d, care i-a furnizat ideea de a face bani simplu \u015fi u\u015for; \u00een definitiv, nu se prostitueaz\u0103, face doar o afacere, iar \u00een biznis ce nu este permis? Sau, \u015fi mai probabil, t\u00e2n\u0103rul o fi preluat ideea din produc\u0163iile cinematografice americane siropoase, \u00een care, mai ales la petrecerile mondene din cluburi, sunt \u201elicita\u0163i\u201d burlacii momentului: pentru o noapte petrecut\u0103 \u00een compania unuia dintre ei, destule isterice \u00ee\u015fi pun economiile la b\u0103taie, fiindc\u0103 prezentul este tot ceea ce conteaz\u0103, iar clipa se cere tr\u0103it\u0103 din plin.<br \/>\nT\u00e2n\u0103rul cu licita\u0163ia va fi \u015ftiut toate acestea \u015fi multe altele: a preluat ideea de undeva \u015fi nu s-a jenat s-o aplice, fiindc\u0103 nu pare a avea obsesia originalit\u0103\u0163ii \u015fi nici inten\u0163ia de a intra, prin atitudinea scandaloas\u0103, \u00een gura presei. Inten\u0163ia lui, m\u0103rturisit\u0103 cu onestitate, a fost aceea de a face bani. Bani necesari pentru terminarea studiilor (motiva\u0163ie menit\u0103 s\u0103 impresioneze sufletele sensibile \u015fi s\u0103 dea un aer de respectabilitate licita\u0163iei); bani de care duce lips\u0103, fiind orfan de mic (alt loc comun al discursului \u00een fa\u0163a camerelor de luat vederi); din p\u0103cate, cum, mai devreme sau mai t\u00e2rziu, to\u0163i devenim orfani, acest mod de a atrage simpatia \u015fi comp\u0103timirea nu prea mai func\u0163ioneaz\u0103: \u00een definitiv, exist\u0103 vreun rom\u00e2n care s\u0103 nu se simt\u0103 orfan? Fie c\u0103-\u0163i dispar p\u0103rin\u0163ii biologici, fie c\u0103-\u0163i pleac\u0103 (uneori dup\u0103 gratii) p\u0103rin\u0163ii spirituali (de la \u015feful de partid p\u00e2n\u0103 la \u015feful de post comunal), zi de zi, ca rom\u00e2n, te sim\u0163i orfan \u015fi, \u00een buna tradi\u0163ie str\u0103mo\u015feasc\u0103, n-ai de ce s\u0103 te sim\u0163i solidar cu ceilal\u0163i, \u00een definitiv, fiecare trebuie s\u0103-\u015fi asume condi\u0163ia de orfan \u015fi s\u0103-\u015fi poarte aceast\u0103 cruce de unul singur.<br \/>\n     Prin urmare, t\u00e2n\u0103rul cu licita\u0163ia virginit\u0103\u0163ii n-a putut nici s\u0103 impresioneze, nici s\u0103 scandalizeze, nici s\u0103 reu\u015feasc\u0103 \u00een afacerea pe care o visa rapid \u015fi avantajos \u00eencheiat\u0103. Dup\u0103 toat\u0103 publicitatea pe care \u015fi-a f\u0103cut-o (post\u0103ri pe re\u0163elele de socializare, anun\u0163uri, afi\u015fe, flutura\u015fi, discurs pe canalele TV etc.), n-a avut dec\u00e2t o client\u0103, dar \u015fi aceea dispus\u0103 s\u0103 ofere o sum\u0103 jignitor de mic\u0103. Speran\u0163a, \u00eens\u0103, moare ultima. La 22 de ani \u00ee\u0163i po\u0163i permite s\u0103 a\u015ftep\u0163i. M\u0103 \u00eentreb, totu\u015fi, ce profil psihologic are un t\u00e2n\u0103r virgin la 22 de ani, \u00eentr-o \u0163ar\u0103 \u00een care via\u0163a sexual\u0103 \u00eencepe, din p\u0103cate, pe la 12-13 ani? Cum s-a p\u0103strat el neprih\u0103nit p\u00e2n\u0103 la aceast\u0103 v\u00e2rst\u0103? Dac\u0103 ar fi avut o infirmitate, o malforma\u0163ie, dac\u0103 ar fi f\u0103cut parte din vreo sect\u0103 a abstinen\u0163ilor sau, pur \u015fi simplu, dac\u0103 ar fi avut un fizic resping\u0103tor, ar mai fi fost ceva de \u00een\u0163eles. Dar s\u0103 fii frumu\u015fel, iste\u0163, s\u0103 ai o constitu\u0163ie de bodyguard \u015fi s\u0103 ie\u015fi din adolescen\u0163\u0103 virgin pare cel pu\u0163in ciudat. Nu-i exclus ca t\u00e2n\u0103rul s\u0103 mint\u0103, baz\u00e2ndu-se pe lipsa de educa\u0163ie sexual\u0103 a genera\u0163iei sale (\u015ftim cu to\u0163ii c\u0103 acest tip de educa\u0163ie se face formal\/superficial \u00een \u015fcoli, aproape deloc \u00een familie, iar mass media are alte griji); \u00een aceste condi\u0163ii, cum s\u0103 verifici dac\u0103 virginitatea t\u00e2n\u0103rului este real\u0103 \u015fi, dac\u0103 ai c\u00e2\u015ftigat licita\u0163ia acesteia (presupun\u00e2nd c\u0103 e\u015fti suficient de t\u00e2mpit\u0103 \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 licitezi \u015fi s\u0103 c\u00e2\u015ftigi!) \u015fi consta\u0163i c\u0103 ai luat \u0163eap\u0103 (scuze!), cui s\u0103 te pl\u00e2ngi? Justi\u0163ia rom\u00e2n\u0103, poli\u0163ia \u015fi alte organe abilitate iau \u00een calcul, dup\u0103 moment, interes \u015fi alte criterii (politice) doar fapte mari de corup\u0163ie, fapte care, prin amploare \u015fi consecin\u0163e, aduc atingere acelui political correctness, fapte care contravin normelor europene, euroatlantice \u015fi eurosovietice etc. Ce face omul cu corpul lui nu constituie fapt penal, cum nici ceea ce fac al\u0163ii cu corpul t\u0103u nu conteaz\u0103. E domeniu privat \u015fi intimitatea, potrivit normelor interna\u0163ionale, trebuie respectat\u0103. Prin urmare, indiferent de rezultat, t\u00e2n\u0103rul nostru \u00ee\u015fi va putea vinde de c\u00e2te ori vrea el virginitatea, fiindc\u0103, p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, se vor g\u0103si amatoare de a\u015fa ceva; dac\u0103 nu pe la noi, m\u0103car aiurea, c\u0103 Europa e mare, iar America&#8230; \u015fi mai \u015fi.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Un t\u00e2n\u0103r din Gala\u0163i \u00ee\u015fi scoate la licita\u0163ie virginitatea. 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