{"id":5146,"date":"2017-05-03T20:29:18","date_gmt":"2017-05-03T17:29:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/?p=5146"},"modified":"2017-06-08T15:07:31","modified_gmt":"2017-06-08T12:07:31","slug":"spatii-culturale-33-ramnic-amour","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/?p=5146","title":{"rendered":"Spa\u021bii culturale nr. 33 &#8211; R\u00e2mnic, mon amour!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/image-12-e1485538078727.jpeg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-0\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"http:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/image-12-300x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-4796 lazyload\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 300px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 300\/300;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/01\/image-12-300x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-4796\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><br \/>\n       Suntem stresa\u0163i. Sigur, nu genul acela de stres care le \u00eentinde pe pi\u0163ipoancele acestor vremi direct pe canapeaua psihologului, de preferin\u0163\u0103 \u00een fa\u0163a c\u00e2t mai multor telespectatori, pentru deful\u0103ri zgomotoase ale subcon\u015ftientului lor. Apropo de \u201edefulare\u201d, trebuie s\u0103 constat c\u0103 at\u00e2t acest cuv\u00e2nt, c\u00e2t \u015fi antonimul s\u0103u, \u201erefulare\u201d, se bucur\u0103 de o nemeritat\u0103 \u015fi gre\u015fit\u0103 folosire \u00een limbajul cu preten\u0163ii al noii burghezii stresate: defulare, conform DEX, \u00eenseamn\u0103 \u201erevenire \u00een con\u015ftiin\u0163\u0103 a unui fapt emo\u0163ional refulat \u00een subcon\u015ftient\u201d; mai pe \u00een\u0163elesul tuturor, a te elibera, a-\u0163i da drumul etc., opus lui \u201erefulare\u201d, care presupune \u00eempingerea \u00een ad\u00e2nc, ascunderea, comprimarea unor st\u0103ri, tr\u0103iri, amintiri etc. Atunci c\u00e2nd Oana \u015fi nu mai \u015ftiu cum se ceart\u0103 ca la u\u015fa cortului cu singura ei mam\u0103, la un oarecare post de televiziune \u015fi sub ochii avizi ai miilor de gospodine comp\u0103timitoare, ea \u201ese defuleaz\u0103\u201d, chit c\u0103 mul\u0163i dintre noi ar prefera s\u0103 refuleze&#8230; ceva, acolo, c\u00e2t s\u0103 devin\u0103 o c\u00e2t de c\u00e2t decent\u0103 persoan\u0103 stresat\u0103. Sigur, mecanicii auto, admiratori, \u015fi ei, ai Oanei, ar spune c\u0103 nu am dreptate, dar psihologia nu face cas\u0103 bun\u0103 cu uleiul de motor, cu pompa \u015fi cu nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103 ce conduct\u0103.<br \/>\n       Suntem stresa\u0163i: de pre\u0163urile la produsele de baz\u0103, de scumpiri, de taxe, din cauza copiilor, a vecinilor, a familiei, a partidelor politice, a guvernului, a preo\u0163ilor care nu se mai opresc din construit biserici, din cauza frigului, din cauza c\u0103ldurii, pentru c\u0103-i var\u0103 sau pentru c\u0103-i iarn\u0103, pentru c\u0103 se generalizeaz\u0103 cipurile \u015fi vom avea statut de vite, pentru c\u0103 Rusia nu-\u015fi vede de treaba ei, pentru c\u0103 ai no\u015ftri \u015fi americanii se bag\u0103 unde nu le fierbe oala, ce mai, suntem stresa\u0163i de tot ce mi\u015fc\u0103 (ori nu) pe lumea asta plin\u0103 de-amaruri \u015fi de chin.<br \/>\n      De stresa\u0163i ce suntem, c\u0103p\u0103t\u0103m uneori dinamica insectelor acefale, ac\u0163ion\u00e2nd haotic \u015fi infantil \u00een situa\u0163ii care ar merita, cel mult, un z\u00e2mbet \u00eeng\u0103duitor.<br \/>\n      \u015ei s\u0103 dau un exemplu: R\u00e2mnicul este un ora\u015f credincios, iar bisericile sunt pline de gospodine care, duminic\u0103 de duminic\u0103, dup\u0103 ce toat\u0103 noaptea s-au uitat la showuri p\u0103c\u0103toase, se \u00eembrac\u0103 frumos \u015fi se duc, \u00een grup, la liturghie. Fapt l\u0103udabil, desigur, \u015fi perfect normal: nu-i femeie, oric\u00e2t de p\u0103c\u0103toas\u0103 la tinere\u0163e, care s\u0103 n-o apuce pe calea bisericii atunci c\u00e2nd constat\u0103, vorba c\u00e2ntecului, c\u0103 \u201ea cam trecut baba cu colacii\u201d. Partea rea este c\u0103 doamnele, pline de credin\u0163\u0103 c\u0103p\u0103tat\u0103 relativ recent, se simt datoare s\u0103 manifeste bigotism, s\u0103 se aventureze \u00een dezbateri teologice pentru care n-au, ca suport, dec\u00e2t predicile ascultate cu o ureche duminica, \u015fi, departe de a fi interesate de ecumenism, s\u0103 afi\u015feze o intoleran\u0163\u0103 absurd\u0103 fa\u0163\u0103 de alte religii.<br \/>\n      Una este s\u0103 \u0163ii la religia ta \u015fi s-o consideri cea mai bun\u0103, cea mai dreapt\u0103, singura adev\u0103rat\u0103 \u015fi tot a\u015fa, alta este s\u0103 sco\u0163i din subcon\u015ftient teama de n\u0103v\u0103litori a str\u0103mo\u015filor no\u015ftri; au trecut totu\u015fi vremurile c\u00e2nd ardeam recoltele \u015fi otr\u0103veam f\u00e2nt\u00e2nile, ca s\u0103-i p\u0103gubim pe du\u015fmanii neamului.<br \/>\n       Pentru cei c\u00e2\u0163iva romano-catolici, adu\u015fi de \u201evalurile vie\u0163ii\u201d \u00een R\u00e2mnic, pare destul de greu s\u0103 supravie\u0163uiasc\u0103, printre at\u00e2\u0163ia ortodoc\u015fi, dar o fac, fiindc\u0103 ora\u015ful este \u015fi al lor: aici au case, aici muncesc, aici \u015fi-au n\u0103scut\/crescut copiii&#8230; \u015f.a.m.d. Ca s\u0103 fiu rea, tot aici au cur\u0103\u0163at, s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 de s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103, gunoiul menajer aruncat cu s\u00e2rg, de multe \u015fi brave gospodine, pe trotuar, pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 ziduri sau chiar la intrarea \u00een biserica romano-catolic\u0103. Tot aici au dezlipit anun\u0163urile indecente \u015fi au plantat tot timpul flori, \u00eenlocuindu-le pe cele rupte, strivite, smulse \u015fi c\u0103lcate \u00een picioare.<br \/>\n      Da, suntem stresa\u0163i. At\u00e2t de stresa\u0163i, \u00eenc\u00e2t devenim intoleran\u0163i, habotnici, gata s\u0103 lu\u0103m pe cont propriu r\u0103zboaie confesionale. \u00cen cur\u00e2nd vom deveni \u015fi rasi\u015fti, \u015fovini etc., \u015fi atunci, sincer, Dumnezeu s\u0103 ne ajute, c\u0103 noi nu mai suntem \u00een stare s-o facem.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Suntem stresa\u0163i. Sigur, nu genul acela de stres care le \u00eentinde pe pi\u0163ipoancele acestor vremi direct pe canapeaua psihologului, de<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":18,"featured_media":4796,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"colormag_page_container_layout":"default_layout","colormag_page_sidebar_layout":"default_layout","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"video_url":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[314,7,1],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5146"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/18"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5146"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5146\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":5147,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5146\/revisions\/5147"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/4796"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5146"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5146"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5146"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}