{"id":21224,"date":"2023-06-07T07:38:46","date_gmt":"2023-06-07T04:38:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/?p=21224"},"modified":"2023-06-08T16:24:03","modified_gmt":"2023-06-08T13:24:03","slug":"caruta-cu-virgule-prietenia","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/?p=21224","title":{"rendered":"C\u0103ru\u021ba cu virgule &#8211; Prietenia"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>De la \u00eenceput vreau s\u0103 spun c\u0103 r\u00e2ndurile ce urmeaz\u0103, nu se refer\u0103 la nimeni anume, iar autorul nu r\u0103spunde pentru situa\u021bia \u00een care unii s-ar putea identifica \u00een ele. Ele (r\u00e2ndurile) sunt doar ni\u0219te p\u0103reri personale \u0219i nimic mai mult!<br \/>\nAm auzit deseori mul\u021bi oameni pl\u00e2ng\u00e2ndu-se c\u0103 au fost tr\u0103da\u021bi de prieteni. Cu siguran\u021b\u0103, cu to\u021bii am trecut prin a\u0219a ceva \u0219i \u0219tim ce \u00eenseamn\u0103!<br \/>\n&#8211; Eu am f\u0103cut at\u00e2tea pentru cutare \u0219i el\/ea, m-a ,,tr\u0103dat\u201d!<br \/>\n\u0218i \u00eenfiereaz\u0103 cu m\u00e2nie proletar\u0103 aceast\u0103 tr\u0103dare, d\u00e2nd de \u00een\u021beles c\u0103 ei au fost victimele, c\u0103 ei au pus suflet \u0219i c\u0103 doar ceilal\u021bi sunt vinova\u021bi, fiindc\u0103 tr\u0103d\u0103torii au pus mai presus de prietenie interese pe care \u0219i le-au urm\u0103rit, iar ei, victimele, au fost \u00een\u0219ela\u021bi, profit\u00e2ndu-se de sufletul lor mare, etc&#8230; Al\u021bii, nu accept\u0103 c\u0103 ar fi putut gre\u0219i \u0219i spun c\u0103 \u00eei a\u0219teapt\u0103 pe tr\u0103d\u0103tori s\u0103 se \u00eentoarc\u0103 la ei, acord\u00e2ndu-le iertarea, cu superioritatea \u0219i condescenden\u021ba pe care o vor recunoscut\u0103 ,,oficial\u201d, ca parte a umilin\u021bei recunoa\u0219terii ,,gre\u0219elii\u201d, iar pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 regretele \u00een genunchi, trebuie s\u0103 li se pupe \u0219i inelul papal&#8230; \u00cen furia lor bezmetic\u0103 \u00eei \u00eendep\u0103rteaz\u0103 pe to\u021bi cei despre care doar b\u0103nuie\u0219te c\u0103 nu-i mai sunt loiali, ca \u0219i cum loialitatea trebuie demonstrat\u0103 cu orice pre\u021b, \u00een orice condi\u021bii! V\u0103it\u0103torii uit\u0103 sau nu vor s\u0103 spun\u0103 de ce au fost ,,tr\u0103da\u021bi\u201d! Oare, vina este numai \u00eentr-o parte? De ce partea cealalt\u0103 nu ar avea dreptatea ei?&#8230; Care este punctul ei de vedere, referitor la acea tr\u0103dare? Pentru c\u0103 uneori, ,,victimele\u201d uit\u0103 s\u0103 spun\u0103 c\u0103 ,,prietenia\u201d s-a rupt \u0219i \/ mai ales din cauza lor! Din cauza acelora\u0219i orgolii \u0219i interese pe care ei le condamn\u0103 gre\u021bos! De multe ori, dreptatea este la mijloc, \u00een acel ce\u021bos ,,no man`s land\u201d scufundat \u00een mla\u0219tina \u00eendoielilor \u0219i a ipocriziilor acceptabile, a amabilit\u0103\u021bilor de convenien\u021b\u0103 \u0219i a z\u00e2mbetelor false, \u00een care, de cele mai multe ori, tr\u0103iesc \u0219erpii invidiei \u0219i viermii m\u00e2ndriei&#8230; \u00cens\u0103, acceptarea realit\u0103\u021bii, \u00eemp\u0103carea cu sine, nu sunt dezirabile ,,sfin\u021beniei\u201d lor! Nu, pentru c\u0103 ,,facerea de bine\u201d trebuie glorificat\u0103, trebuie tr\u00e2mbi\u021bat\u0103, iar f\u0103c\u0103torului de bine trebuie s\u0103 i se aduc\u0103 osanale \u0219i chiar sacrificii umane, \u00een pia\u021ba public\u0103, spre recuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103 ve\u0219nic\u0103 \u0219i zeificare. Pentru c\u0103 el nu se mul\u021bume\u0219te cu pu\u021bin, nu se mul\u021bume\u0219te cu binele f\u0103cut \u00een lini\u0219te, cel care conteaz\u0103 de fapt! \u0218i poate nici a\u0219a i nu i se va umple imensul gol pe care-l poart\u0103 \u00een suflet! Ace\u0219ti mici Dumnezei, ce se \u00eenchipuie f\u0103c\u0103tori \u0219i desf\u0103c\u0103tori de lumi, nu \u0219tiu c\u0103 acei pu\u021bini fideli care \u00eei mai urmeaz\u0103 \u0219i care-i toarn\u0103 \u00een ureche vorbele dulci de fals\u0103 adora\u021bie, nu-i sunt admiratori, ci doar al\u021bi interesa\u021bi care le-au locul celor abia alunga\u021bi, \u0219i care a\u0219teapt\u0103 acelea\u0219i firimituri de la masa lui ,,regal\u0103\u201d, dar care, cu prima ocazie \u00eel vor sf\u00e2\u0219ia f\u0103r\u0103 nicio remu\u0219care!<br \/>\nEu cred c\u0103 o prietenie nu se c\u00e2\u0219tig\u0103 la zaruri \u0219i nu se p\u0103streaz\u0103 cu lan\u021buri! Este acea stare de gra\u021bie a spiritului uman pe care pu\u021bini dintre noi o atingem, acel Sf\u00e2nt Graal pe care-l c\u0103ut\u0103m cu to\u021bii! \u0218i tocmai de aceea, odat\u0103 g\u0103sit\u0103, ea trebuie p\u0103strat\u0103 departe de orgoliile distrug\u0103toare \u0219i soclurile falselor statui aurite! Tr\u0103darea, dezam\u0103girea, sunt \u0219i ele reversul \u00eentunecat al acestei monede scumpe, iar atunci c\u00e2nd o arunc\u0103m \u00een sus, trebuie s\u0103 fim preg\u0103ti\u021bi \u0219i pentru situa\u021bia \u00een care ea va c\u0103dea pe partea ur\u00e2t\u0103 a ei&#8230; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>De la \u00eenceput vreau s\u0103 spun c\u0103 r\u00e2ndurile ce urmeaz\u0103, nu se refer\u0103 la nimeni anume, iar autorul nu r\u0103spunde<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":12,"featured_media":19360,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"colormag_page_container_layout":"default_layout","colormag_page_sidebar_layout":"default_layout","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"video_url":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[316,2],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21224"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/12"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=21224"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21224\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":21225,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/21224\/revisions\/21225"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/19360"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=21224"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=21224"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=21224"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}