{"id":2057,"date":"2015-07-26T08:25:00","date_gmt":"2015-07-26T05:25:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/?p=2057"},"modified":"2015-07-26T08:25:00","modified_gmt":"2015-07-26T05:25:00","slug":"zanganele-lxxxvi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/?p=2057","title":{"rendered":"Z\u0103ng\u0103nele LXXXVI"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/image7.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-0\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2059 lazyload\" data-src=\"http:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/image7.jpg\" alt=\"image\" width=\"250\" height=\"216\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 250px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 250\/216;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-2059\" src=\"http:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/07\/image7.jpg\" alt=\"image\" width=\"250\" height=\"216\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><\/p>\n<p>  Chiar dac\u0103 la distan\u021b\u0103 de c\u00e2teva zile, adaousul de idee s-a v\u0103rsat proasp\u0103t pe h\u00e2rtie imediat dup\u0103 a doua p\u0103rere care a venit s\u0103 m\u0103 aten\u021bioneze c\u0103 o femeie este p\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103&#8230;.<br \/>\n         O fiin\u021b\u0103. Un om \u0219i nu un obiect la cheremul oric\u0103rui neavenit. Da, o spun cu t\u0103rie, ele, frumoasele, tandrele, sunt, datorit\u0103 mentalit\u0103\u021bilor, sortite s\u0103 fie \u021binta u\u0219oar\u0103 a excesului de putere, fie verbal\u0103, fie, \u0219i se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 ades, fizic\u0103. Din momentul \u00een care lumea \u0219i-a g\u0103sit rostul \u00een \u00eemp\u0103r\u021birea dup\u0103 nivelul de for\u021b\u0103 al fiec\u0103ruia, femeia s-a trezit \u00een situa\u021bie de inferioritate, nu era un om dintre cei tari, era chiar fragil\u0103, supus\u0103 unui supliciu de sl\u0103biciune total\u0103 \u00een toiul, sf\u00e2r\u0219itul \u0219i \u00eenceputul de lun\u0103. Pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 tot acest chin, rar se putea ap\u0103ra ca un b\u0103rbat adev\u0103rat. \u00cen loc de sabie avea doar o lingur\u0103 de lemn, insuficient\u0103 s\u0103 suporte ap\u0103rarea \u00eempotriva fierului c\u0103lit \u00een forj\u0103, \u00een loc de dou\u0103 m\u00e2ini cu care s\u0103-\u0219i sus\u021bin\u0103 via\u021ba proprie avea doar o privire ucig\u0103toare sau \u00eenl\u0103crimat\u0103 cu care-\u0219i cerea dreptul la via\u021b\u0103 pentru sine \u0219i pruncul str\u00e2ns la piept cu \u00eend\u00e2rjire.<br \/>\n        At\u00e2t c\u00e2t \u0219tiu eu femeie este mama, au fost bunicile \u0219i str\u0103bunicile, este sora pe care n-am avut-o, este colega de banc\u0103 dintr-a patra, cea din gimnaziu, era tovar\u0103\u0219a profesoar\u0103, este so\u021bia mea &#8211; cea mai bun\u0103 dintre amice \u0219i cea mai dr\u0103g\u0103stoas\u0103 dintre iubite, femeie este \u0219i fiica mea, cel mai scump dar pe care mi l-a putut oferi vreodat\u0103 via\u021ba. Sunt toate cunoscutele mele fie mari, mici, de-o \u0219chioap\u0103 sau \u00een prag de final. Chiar \u0219i cele pe frontispiciul c\u0103rora s-a pus eticheta ,,curv\u0103&#8221; sunt femei. Nu este vreo ru\u0219ine, dar da\u021bi-mi voie s\u0103 le pricep mai greu, s\u0103 nu le \u00een\u021beleg. Da\u021bi-mi voie s\u0103 nu vreau s\u0103 am de-a face cu astfel de persoane, s\u0103 nu le fac jocul perpetuat de la biblica magdalen\u0103, s\u0103 nu mar\u0219ez mental la despuierea de moralitate doar pentru o clip\u0103 de egoism.<br \/>\n        Am trecut peste raptul voin\u021bei mai departe, nu era de z\u0103bovit peste rug\u0103min\u021bi, t\u00e2nguiri, le\u0219inuri de durere, peste respira\u021bii \u00eempiedicate de pl\u0103ceri extraumane, peste teama c\u0103 \u00een secunda urm\u0103toare, urm\u0103toarea pierdere de con\u0219tiin\u021b\u0103 te poate l\u0103sa f\u0103r\u0103 suflare, ar fi inuman din partea mea s\u0103 \u00eenvii clipele de co\u0219mar. M\u0103 opresc asupra unui g\u00e2nd care a mai pus cerneal\u0103 pe scrisori c\u0103tre voi, \u0219i din parte-mi, c\u0103 \u00eenainte de toate rolul femeii este cel de \u00eenr\u00e2urire a unei noi na\u0219teri. Pentru tot acest moment, nu unul u\u0219or, fetele erau preg\u0103tite aparte fa\u021b\u0103 de noi b\u0103ie\u021bii, li se spunea cum, de ce, implica\u021biile erau \u00een\u0219iruite de d\u0103sc\u0103li\u021be \u0219i \u0219tiintific, dar \u0219i mai pu\u021bin. C\u00e2nd \u00eei venea sorocul, fecioara, \u00een starea scurt\u0103 de trecere de la fat\u0103 la femeie, era preg\u0103tit\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eenfrunte lupta corp la corp cu cel ce avea s\u0103-i aduc\u0103 pre\u021biosul trofeu, cel mult a\u0219teptat nou\u0103 luni. Nou\u0103, ochilor beli\u021bi pe plan\u0219ele de la Anatomie, nici un cuv\u00e2nt. Poate vreo prostie ie\u0219it\u0103 b\u0103rb\u0103te\u0219te pe gura tat\u0103lui la un \u0219pri\u021b, pentru \u00eencurajare, din care noi s\u0103 \u00een\u021belegem cu ce se m\u0103n\u00e2nc\u0103 \u0219i se consum\u0103 actul sexual. G\u00e2ndi\u021bi-v\u0103 la doi in\u0219i, el \u0219i ea, b\u00e2t\u0103 de cunoa\u0219tere, trimi\u0219i \u00een diminea\u021ba de dup\u0103 nunt\u0103 de p\u0103rin\u021bi s\u0103 scoat\u0103 din p\u0103m\u00e2nt, din iarb\u0103 verde cearceaful cu pat\u0103 ro\u0219ie de desigilare.<br \/>\n         Niciodat\u0103 separarea asta a indivizilor nu a dus dec\u00e2t la acea furie b\u0103rb\u0103teasc\u0103 de-a ,,rupe&#8221; la propriu organul consoartei \u00eenc\u0103 de la primul contact. \u0218i ce, \u0103sta care nu produce pl\u0103cere, chiar dac\u0103 d\u0103 \u0219i unul \u0219i altul isc\u0103litur\u0103 de unire pe perioad\u0103 nedeterminat\u0103, nu se nume\u0219te tot viol? Nepotrivirea \u00eenghi\u021bit\u0103 \u00een sec de femeie, fiindc\u0103 ei \u00eei este cel mai r\u0103u dup\u0103 un astfel de contact, nu are acela\u0219i nume? Atentatul la integritatea corporal\u0103 extern\u0103, b\u0103taia conjugal\u0103, nu intr\u0103 \u00een aceea\u0219i categorie, neglijen\u021ba familial\u0103, adulterul, tot mai des \u00een contemporaneitate, ce-o fi? Vorbim \u00eens\u0103 de copii. C\u00e2t de educat \u0219i de\u0219tept ar fi un adolescent, c\u0103 nu degeaba a fost pus\u0103 bariera la 18 ani, tot \u00ee\u0219i d\u0103 \u00een petic, la fel ca \u021biganul, \u0219i se \u00eeneac\u0103 inexplicabil la malul reu\u0219itei. Ave\u021bi deci \u00eenc\u0103 un argument c\u0103 cei \u0219apte ,,spartani&#8221; ar trebui s\u0103 stea pu\u021bin la ,,r\u0103coare&#8221;, ,,criogenarea&#8221; le-ar prinde bine la intelectul de liberi-\u00eentreprinz\u0103tori.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Chiar dac\u0103 la distan\u021b\u0103 de c\u00e2teva zile, adaousul de idee s-a v\u0103rsat proasp\u0103t pe h\u00e2rtie imediat dup\u0103 a doua p\u0103rere<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":7,"featured_media":2059,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"colormag_page_container_layout":"default_layout","colormag_page_sidebar_layout":"default_layout","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"video_url":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[2,1,97],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2057"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/7"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=2057"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2057\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":2060,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2057\/revisions\/2060"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/2059"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=2057"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=2057"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=2057"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}