{"id":19719,"date":"2022-11-25T23:27:51","date_gmt":"2022-11-25T20:27:51","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/?p=19719"},"modified":"2022-11-25T23:28:26","modified_gmt":"2022-11-25T20:28:26","slug":"spatii-culturale-nr-27-12","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/?p=19719","title":{"rendered":"Spa\u021bii culturale nr. 27 (12)"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>  <strong>    Mihaela MALEA STROE<\/strong><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/33.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-0\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/33-220x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"220\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-10274 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/33-220x300.jpg 220w, https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/33.jpg 319w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 220px) 100vw, 220px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 220px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 220\/300;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/33-220x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"220\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-10274\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/33-220x300.jpg 220w, https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/33.jpg 319w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 220px) 100vw, 220px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>Sfaturi pentru eul din ad\u00e2nc <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Las\u0103 lucrurile a\u015fa cum sunt!<br \/>\n\u00cen ordinea lor bine cump\u0103nit\u0103,<br \/>\n\u00centre dorul de-a fi<br \/>\n\u015ei orice alt\u0103 ispit\u0103,<br \/>\nTu s\u0103 plute\u015fti u\u015for,<br \/>\nF\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 le nume\u015fti.<br \/>\nS\u0103 treci, pur \u015fi simplu s\u0103 treci.<br \/>\nVei pl\u0103ti, c\u00e2nd va veni vremea, vama&#8230;<br \/>\nPre\u0163ul t\u0103u \u015fi toate datoriile pentru privilegiul<br \/>\nDe a vedea, de a auzi,<br \/>\nDe a avea inim\u0103, \u015fi minte,<br \/>\n\u015ei un sens.<br \/>\nNu e\u015fti aici ca s\u0103 schimbi ceva; e\u015fti aici<br \/>\nCa s\u0103 alegi. <\/p>\n<p>Cunosc\u00e2nd toate acestea,<br \/>\nR\u0103s\u0103de\u015fte un pom, sap\u0103 o f\u00e2nt\u00e2n\u0103,<br \/>\nTaci, c\u00e2nt\u0103, pl\u00e2ngi, viseaz\u0103,<br \/>\nPoate \u00ee\u0163i vine \u00een g\u00e2nd o poveste,<br \/>\nSau o \u00eent\u00e2mplare, o vorb\u0103 de duh<br \/>\nPentru a \u015faptea zi din s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103<br \/>\nSau pentru alte zile&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>Oricum, nu vei putea, dup\u0103 toate acestea<br \/>\nS\u0103 mai la\u015fi lucrurile a\u015fa cum erau.<br \/>\n\u00cenfiin\u0163eaz\u0103-le! Boteaz\u0103-le!<br \/>\nSfin\u0163e\u015fte-le!<br \/>\nApoi a\u015faz\u0103-te, z\u00e2mbind, printre ele,<br \/>\nCa \u015fi cum tu nici n-ai fi fost pe-aici p\u00e2n\u0103-acum. <\/p>\n<p><strong><br \/>\nRostul \u00eengerului <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Deun\u0103zi, \u00eentre dou\u0103 visuri,<br \/>\n\u00centre veniri \u015fi plec\u0103ri,<br \/>\n\u00centre prea pu\u0163ine r\u0103spunsuri<br \/>\nLa at\u00e2t de multe \u00eentreb\u0103ri,<br \/>\nAm stat de vorb\u0103, o clip\u0103,<br \/>\nCu \u00eengerul meu p\u0103zitor&#8230;<br \/>\n&#8230;despre lacrima zilnic\u0103,<br \/>\nDespre grab\u0103 \u015fi team\u0103,<br \/>\nP\u0103s\u0103ri de prad\u0103,<br \/>\nN\u0103luci, speran\u0163e \u015fi<br \/>\nAlte neajunsuri&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>La toate, la toate<br \/>\nA dat din umeri, din aripi,<br \/>\nNep\u0103s\u0103tor. <\/p>\n<p>Dar mi-a spus, privindu-m\u0103:<br \/>\nRostul lui e<br \/>\nS\u0103 nu m\u0103 lase s\u0103 mor. <\/p>\n<p><strong><br \/>\n\u00centrebare \u015foptit\u0103 <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Spune-mi\u2026<br \/>\nCum o s\u0103 fii?<br \/>\n\u015ei-n ce-o s\u0103 crezi? Atunci<br \/>\nC\u00e2nd de departe-o s\u0103-\u0163i aduci aminte<br \/>\nC\u0103 \u00een t\u0103ceri ad\u00e2nci,<br \/>\nDe seri t\u00e2rzii,<br \/>\nNoi am vorbit frumos<br \/>\nDe lucruri sfinte&#8230; <\/p>\n<p><strong><br \/>\nDincolo de cuvinte <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>O s\u0103 tac, de-acum.<br \/>\nNu mai \u015ftiu s\u0103-\u0163i spun<br \/>\nC\u00e2t te iubesc,<br \/>\nDec\u00e2t dac\u0103 a\u015f deslu\u015fi<br \/>\nCum anume se dezghioac\u0103<br \/>\nDin propriile umbre,<br \/>\nCum se \u00eent\u00e2mpin\u0103, cum se ador\u0103<br \/>\nLa S\u0103rb\u0103tori, \u00eentre anotimpuri,<br \/>\nStrig\u0103te melancolice de cocori,<br \/>\nCu \u015foapte de ne\u00eensemnate \u015fi pudice flori. <\/p>\n<p><strong><br \/>\nConfesiune <\/strong> <\/p>\n<p>S\u0103 \u015ftii<br \/>\nC\u0103 \u015fi atunci c\u00e2nd tac<br \/>\nSunt pe aproape; te port<br \/>\n\u00cen vise, sub pleoape,<br \/>\n\u00cen g\u00e2ndurile<br \/>\nNiciodat\u0103 transformate \u00een \u015foapte,<br \/>\n\u00cen zori, \u00een amurg \u015fi \u00een noapte. <\/p>\n<p><strong><br \/>\nPoem de zile mari <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ziua aceea \u00een care<br \/>\nNu \u015ftiu cum, nici de ce, prin ce mister,<br \/>\nS-a deschis o fereastr\u0103 a lumii spre cer<br \/>\n\u00ceng\u0103duindu-ne s\u0103 fim, s\u0103 ne vedem, s\u0103 povestim,<br \/>\nZiua aceea, ori seara de var\u0103 dat\u0103 nou\u0103<br \/>\ns\u0103 vis\u0103m dimpreun\u0103, s\u0103 vis\u0103m pe-din-dou\u0103<br \/>\n(\u015ftiind, am\u00e2ndoi, ori f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u015ftim?),<br \/>\nZiua aceea nu e nici ieri, nici ast\u0103zi, nici m\u00e2ine&#8230;<br \/>\n\u015fi nici luni, mar\u0163i, miercuri sau joi.<br \/>\nZiua aceea nu are nume, nu are num\u0103r,<br \/>\nDoar a trecut, binecuv\u00e2ntare, pe-aici&#8230;<br \/>\nCruce-ncrustata pe um\u0103r,<br \/>\nS\u0103rb\u0103toare scris\u0103 cu litere mari \u00een \u2013<br \/>\nnecunoscute nou\u0103 \u2013 calendare.<br \/>\nZiua aceea \u00een care, speriate de lumina din noi,<br \/>\nUmbrele noastre au fugit s\u0103 se ascund\u0103, departe,<br \/>\nS\u0103 se divid\u0103 \u00een alte umbre, mai m\u0103runte<br \/>\n\u015ei, poate, s\u0103 \u00eembrace haine colorate&#8230;<br \/>\nE clipa c\u00e2nd ne trezim c\u0103, uite!, dintr-o dat\u0103,<br \/>\nAvem aripi, \u015fi m\u00e2ini avem, \u015fi ochi, \u015fi o inim\u0103<br \/>\nde veghe, undeva&#8230;<br \/>\n\u015ei privire-de-privit mai presus de fire,<br \/>\n\u015ei (ne) venim \u00een \u00eent\u00e2mpinare, \u015fi, mai ales,<br \/>\nNe iubim&#8230;<br \/>\nNe doare, tare ne doare \u015fi ne apas\u0103<br \/>\nClipa frumoas\u0103, ziua de m\u00e2ine, ziua de var\u0103,<br \/>\nClipa fugar\u0103 \u00eenspre care t\u00e2njim&#8230; <\/p>\n<p><strong><br \/>\n\u00centreb\u0103ri&#8230; <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ce har al privirii tale<br \/>\nM-a t\u0103m\u0103duit, dintr-o dat\u0103, de toate<br \/>\nDurerile ascunse \u00een secreta-mi cetate<br \/>\n&#8230; de-am izbutit s\u0103 vorbesc despre ele<br \/>\n\u2013 numai cu tine \u2013<br \/>\nca despre ni\u015fte plimb\u0103ri cu taxiul,<br \/>\n\u00eentre via\u0163\u0103 \u015fi moarte,<br \/>\nale unei persoane str\u0103ine? <\/p>\n<p>Prin ce har al privirii tale<br \/>\nPr\u0103p\u0103stiile negre ale trecutului meu<br \/>\nS-au desprins, dintr-o dat\u0103, de mine? <\/p>\n<p>\u015ei s-au f\u0103cut abur, sau imponderabil c\u00e2ntec de leag\u0103n,<br \/>\nSau altceva&#8230;<br \/>\nPoate m\u0103rg\u0103ritar \u00eentr-un colier fermecat<br \/>\nPurtat, la seratele din alt veac,<br \/>\nDe o domni\u0163\u0103 trist\u0103 sau&#8230; nu \u015ftiu de cine&#8230; <\/p>\n<p><strong><br \/>\nGoblen matinal <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00cenfrunt\u00e2nd toate erorile veacului,<br \/>\nA poposit, de-asear\u0103, \u00een podul palmei mele<br \/>\nUn greier boem \u015fi sprin\u0163ar.<br \/>\nNu \u015ftiu dac\u0103 vine din gr\u0103dina bunicii<br \/>\nSau din vreo alt\u0103, mult mai \u00eendep\u0103rtat\u0103,<br \/>\nGr\u0103din\u0103-altar&#8230;<br \/>\nDar c\u00e2nt\u0103, m\u00e2ntuit, \u00een linia vie\u0163ii<br \/>\nDin palma mea,<br \/>\nA iubire c\u00e2nt\u0103 sau doine\u015fte cuminte,<br \/>\nM\u0103runta vietate-greier,<br \/>\nAtunci c\u00e2nd, prin sit\u0103 deas\u0103 de oseminte,<br \/>\nLumina o caut, o v\u0103d \u015fi o cern<br \/>\nSau poate o sem\u0103n \u015fi-apoi o veghez,<br \/>\nO sap, o plivesc \u015fi o treier. <\/p>\n<p><strong><br \/>\nAnotimp f\u0103r\u0103 nume <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ooo! Tu \u015ftii bine, iubitul meu, ziua aceea<br \/>\n\u00cen care timpul s-a topit cu noi \u00een ve\u015fnicii&#8230;<br \/>\nZi de t\u00e2n\u0103r\u0103 toamn\u0103 \u00eendr\u0103gostit\u0103,<br \/>\nGhei\u015f\u0103 sfios\u0103 ori fecioar\u0103<br \/>\nDinspre soare-r\u0103sare venit\u0103. <\/p>\n<p>\u00cen trecerea ei \u00eenvoalt\u0103 \u015fi fin\u0103<br \/>\nA \u015foptit ceva doar de ea \u015ftiut&#8230;<br \/>\nDe nu s-au mai a\u015fternut brumele<br \/>\n\u00cen gr\u0103din\u0103. <\/p>\n<p>Am r\u0103mas am\u00e2ndoi,<br \/>\n\u00cen joc ne-nceput, ne-sf\u00e2r\u015fit,<br \/>\nPiese de filde\u015f: rege \u2013 tu, eu \u2013 regin\u0103,<br \/>\nLevit\u00e2nd deasupra pieselor de abanos<br \/>\nR\u0103sturnate pe tabla de \u015fah,<br \/>\nLevit\u00e2nd deasupra p\u0103tratelor perfecte<br \/>\nDe \u00eentuneric \u015fi lumin\u0103. <\/p>\n<p><strong><br \/>\nPoem domestic <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>At\u00e2t de bine te aud<br \/>\nChiar \u015fi atunci c\u00e2nd cuvintele tac.<br \/>\nTe aud&#8230;<br \/>\nDe c\u00e2nd \u00eempreun\u0103 r\u0103sar literele numelor noastre<br \/>\nP\u00e2n\u0103 apun \u00eempreun\u0103, \u015fi iar\u0103\u015fi r\u0103sar&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>Te aud atunci c\u00e2nd scriu, c\u00e2nd dorm, c\u00e2nd visez,<br \/>\nC\u00e2nd prepar viitoare amintire<br \/>\nA mesei de pr\u00e2nz \u2013 \u015fni\u0163el de pui, cu varz\u0103 c\u0103lit\u0103,<br \/>\nSau, la micul dejun,<br \/>\nAmintire de cornuri proaspete \u015fi cafea cu lapte&#8230;<br \/>\nOriunde ai fi,<br \/>\nBine \u015ftiu, limpede aud, simt b\u0103taia inimii tale,<br \/>\nSeara, pe la nou\u0103, diminea\u0163a \u2013 la \u015fapte. <\/p>\n<p>E\u015fti aici, cu mine, mereu, \u015fi nu m-ar mira<br \/>\nDac\u0103, \u00eent\u00e2lnindu-ne \u00eenc\u0103 o dat\u0103<br \/>\n\u00cen via\u0163a asta sau \u00een alte vie\u0163i,<br \/>\nA\u015f afla<br \/>\nC\u0103 am scris, am\u00e2ndoi deodat\u0103,<br \/>\nAcelea\u015fi poeme de iubire<br \/>\nPe frun\u0163ile \u00eeng\u00e2ndurate<br \/>\nAle acelora\u015fi dimine\u0163i. <\/p>\n<p><strong><br \/>\nVis\u0103toare, Galathea&#8230; <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ce m\u00e2ini frumoase ai, iubitul meu!<br \/>\nCe \u00eendurerate cuvinte!<br \/>\nOare cum ar fi<br \/>\nDac\u0103 m\u00e2inile tale, \u00eentr-o bun\u0103 zi,<br \/>\nAr atinge lutul, trec\u0103toare form\u0103 a<br \/>\nNumelui meu?<br \/>\n\u015ei l-ar pl\u0103m\u0103di, l-ar desc\u00e2nta,<br \/>\n\u2013 m\u00e2inile tandre, cuvintele \u00eencete \u2013<br \/>\n\u00cenc\u0103 o dat\u0103 \u015fi \u00eenc\u0103 o dat\u0103, pe \u00eendelete,<br \/>\nP\u00e2n\u0103 c\u00e2nd f\u0103ptura mea, toat\u0103,<br \/>\nFiin\u0163\u0103 \u015fi nume ale nesf\u00e2r\u015fitei iubiri<br \/>\nAr deveni&#8230; <\/p>\n<p><strong><br \/>\nGermina\u0163ie <\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ci, iat\u0103, acum, l\u0103s\u00e2ndu-se t\u0103cerea<br \/>\n\u00cen fagurii de cear\u0103 curat\u0103 ai zilei,<br \/>\n\u00cemi adun din v\u0103zduh respira\u0163ia<br \/>\n\u00cen ritualul poemului&#8230;<br \/>\nS\u0103-\u0163i spun, iubite, ce-am mai aflat,<br \/>\nCe-am mai visat \u00eentre timp&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>Poate c\u0103 tu ai uitat, poate c\u0103 \u015fi eu o s\u0103 uit,<br \/>\nDar, ne\u0163\u0103rmurit\u0103 \u015fi vie,<br \/>\nIubirea noastr\u0103 o s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103&#8230; <\/p>\n<p>\u00cen memoria ploii, a pietrei, a v\u00e2ntului,<br \/>\n\u00cen inima frunzei \u015fi \u00een broderia delicat\u0103<br \/>\nA nervurilor ei,<br \/>\n\u00cen memoria fulgerului care \u2013 cum \u00eensu\u0163i spuneai \u2013<br \/>\nDin senin<br \/>\nNe-a furat ast\u0103-var\u0103 cuvintele,<br \/>\nPodoab\u0103 pe fruntea cerului dorindu-le<br \/>\nSau \u2013 cine \u015ftie?! \u2013 lumin\u0103 de veghe<br \/>\n\u00cen chilia unui \u00eensingurat serafim.<\/p>\n<p><strong><br \/>\n   Stan BREBENEL<\/strong><br \/>\n<a href=\"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-1.jpg\" data-rel=\"lightbox-image-1\" data-rl_title=\"\" data-rl_caption=\"\" title=\"\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" data-src=\"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-1-213x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"213\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-10141 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-1-213x300.jpg 213w, https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-1.jpg 283w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 213px) 100vw, 213px\" src=\"data:image\/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAAAAACH5BAEKAAEALAAAAAABAAEAAAICTAEAOw==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 213px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 213\/300;\" \/><noscript><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-1-213x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"213\" height=\"300\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-10141\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-1-213x300.jpg 213w, https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/08\/5-1.jpg 283w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 213px) 100vw, 213px\" \/><\/noscript><\/a><\/p>\n<p><strong>DRAGOSTEA DUREAZ\u0102 TREI ANI<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\tS-a demonstrat de-a lungul timpului c\u0103 istoria este ciclic\u0103. La fel \u015fi fenomenele ce au loc \u00een Univers: na\u015fterea, moartea, apari\u0163ia \u015fi dispari\u0163ia corpurilor cere\u015fti etc. De c\u00e2nd societatea a evoluat, s-a demonstrat c\u0103 \u015fi alte elemente ale Universului sunt repetabile, mai ales acolo unde s-a \u00eencercat s\u0103 se r\u0103spund\u0103 la cele mai interesante aspecte ale rela\u0163iilor interumane de c\u00e2nd exist\u0103 omul ca element important al Universului cognoscibil. Acest lucru \u00eencearc\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eel demonstreze \u015fi Fr\u00e9d\u00e9ric Beigbeder \u00een romanul \u201eDragostea dureaz\u0103 trei ani\u201d ap\u0103rut, \u00een versiunea rom\u00e2neasc\u0103 \u00een anul 2011, la Editura Trei, \u00een traducerea asigurat\u0103 de Marie-Jeanne Vasiloiu. Romanul a ap\u0103rut \u00een anul 1997 cu titlul original \u201eL\u2019amour dure trois ans\u201d la Editions Grasset &#038; Fasquelle din Paris. Fr\u00e9d\u00e9ric Beigbeder s-a n\u0103scut \u00een anul 1965 \u015fi este licen\u0163iat \u00een marketing \u015fi publicitate. C\u0103r\u0163ile sale au fost traduse \u00een numeroase \u0163\u0103ri, ecranizate \u015fi puse \u00een scena unor prestigioase teatre. Completeaz\u0103 fericit pe cona\u0163ionalii s\u0103i, Pascal Bruckner \u015fi Marc L\u00e9vy, cu care formeaz\u0103 un v\u00e2rf de lance foarte penetrant al literaturii franceze actuale.<br \/>\n\tRomanul \u201eDragostea dureaz\u0103 trei ani\u201d face parte dintr-un proiect mai amplu, fiind ultimul volum dintr-o trilogie ce a debutat cu \u201eMemoriile unui t\u00e2n\u0103r \u0163icnit\u201d \u015fi a continuat cu \u201eShitter\u2019s Club\u201d. Dac\u0103 ar fi s\u0103 rezum\u0103m evenimentele trilogiei, nu am putea-o face mai bine dec\u00e2t autorul \u00eensu\u015fi: \u201e\u00een primul volum m\u0103 \u00eendr\u0103gosteam, \u00een al doilea m\u0103 \u00eensuram, \u00een al treilea divor\u0163am \u015fi m\u0103 \u00eensuram din nou\u201d.<br \/>\n\tRomanul \u00eencepe cu o afirma\u0163ie senten\u0163ioas\u0103 \u015fi frust\u0103, \u015focant\u0103 chiar, ce poate fi considerat\u0103, fraza respectiv\u0103, drept un aforism: \u201eDragostea este o b\u0103t\u0103lie pierdut\u0103 dinainte\u201d. Cei trei ani de dragoste din c\u0103snicie sunt puncta\u0163i foarte distinct de autor: un an de pasiune, un an de tandre\u0163e \u015fi un an de plictis, dup\u0103 care urmeaz\u0103 divor\u0163ul. Legat de acest lucru, speciali\u015ftii ONU \u00eei chestioneaz\u0103 pe locuitorii din 62 de \u0163\u0103ri ale lumii cu privire la divor\u0163. Persoanele chestionate, sute de milioane de oameni din 1947 p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een prezent, au obiceiuri \u015fi tradi\u0163ii diferite, profesii diferite, vorbesc limbi diferite, \u201ecunosc un v\u00e2rf al curbei divor\u0163urilor exact dup\u0103 trei ani\u201d. Desp\u0103r\u0163irea are loc dup\u0103 aceea\u015fi veche re\u0163et\u0103: \u201ene-am l\u0103sat a\u015fa cum     ne-am luat: f\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 \u015ftim de ce\u201d.<br \/>\n\t\u201eDragostea \u2013 sus\u0163ine autorul \u015fi nu avem cum s\u0103 nu \u00eei d\u0103m dreptate \u2013 \u00eencepe cu ap\u0103 de trandafiri \u015fi se termin\u0103 cu l\u0103turi\u201d. Fr\u00e9d\u00e9ric Beigbeder face o analiz\u0103 minu\u0163ioas\u0103 a ceea ce \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103s\u0103toria \u00een societatea francez\u0103 actual\u0103, copiat\u0103 pas cu pas de cea rom\u00e2neasc\u0103. Surprinde aspecte care sunt definitorii despre dezastrul din via\u0163a de cuplu, \u00een care angoasele despre singur\u0103tate, despre triste\u0163e, despre dragoste, c\u0103snicie, divor\u0163, fericire sau nefericire sunt prezente aproape permanent, dup\u0103 primii doi ani. El sus\u0163ine c\u0103 mariajul nu este pentru tine \u00eensu\u0163i: \u201ete \u00eensori ca s\u0103-\u0163i s\u00e2c\u00e2i prietenii sau ca s\u0103-\u0163i mul\u0163ume\u015fti p\u0103rin\u0163ii\u201d \u015fi c\u0103 \u201e\u00een ziua de azi, nou\u0103 nun\u0163i fi\u0163oase din zece nu sunt dec\u00e2t ni\u015fte pa\u015fi obligatorii, ni\u015fte ceremonii mondene&#8230;\u201d.<br \/>\n\tAutorul \u015ftie re\u0163eta succesului la public \u015fi o folose\u015fte din plin \u2013 este doar specialist \u00een publicitate \u2013 \u015fi combin\u0103 elemente atr\u0103g\u0103toare: autoironia de cea mai bun\u0103 calitate \u015fi, uneori, sarcasmul. Chiar dac\u0103 este un fin condeier nu se d\u0103 \u00een l\u0103turi de la vulgarit\u0103\u0163i, pe care le auzim \u015fi noi din ce \u00een ce mai des la tot pasul, creion\u00e2nd \u00een acest fel tabloul satiric al societ\u0103\u0163ii actuale. Cinismul lui Fr\u00e9d\u00e9ric Beigbeder este ancorat \u00een realitatea apropiat\u0103. Dup\u0103 lectur\u0103 po\u0163i s\u0103-\u0163i pui numeroase \u00eentreb\u0103ri, unele de genul: are el dreptate? C\u00e2\u0163i dintre cititori se reg\u0103sesc \u00een povestea (?) lui Fr\u00e9d\u00e9ric? Triunghiul amoros, din ce \u00een ce mai prezent \u00een societatea \u201emodern\u0103\u201d \u2013 ai fi \u201eexclus\u201d din ea dac\u0103 nu ai fi \u00eentr-o asemenea ipostaz\u0103 \u2013 dintre Marc Marronier, Anne \u2013 superba lui so\u0163ie \u015fi Alice, cea cu picioare lungi, se sf\u00e2r\u015fe\u015fte dup\u0103 ce s-a consumat la intensitate maxim\u0103, intervenind divor\u0163ul de consoarta legal\u0103 \u015fi c\u0103s\u0103toria cu amanta oficial\u0103. Dup\u0103 c\u0103s\u0103toria cu Alice, Marc filozofeaz\u0103: \u201ePentru ca dragostea s\u0103 dureze, e de-ajuns s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u015fti \u00een afara timpului. Cea care ucide dragostea e lumea monden\u0103\u201d.<br \/>\n\t\u00cens\u0103 mesajul lui Fr\u00e9d\u00e9ric Beigbeder este unul c\u00e2t se poate de uman: oamenii s\u0103 nu \u00eenceteze s\u0103 iubeasc\u0103. S\u0103 iubeasc\u0103 din \u015fi cu toate puterile via\u0163a pentru c\u0103 via\u0163a deschide inima c\u0103tre alte iubiri. Numai pentru acest singur mesaj, care r\u0103zbate dincolo de superficialit\u0103\u0163ile eroilor, cartea lui Fr\u00e9d\u00e9ric merit\u0103 citit\u0103, aprofundat\u0103 \u015fi avut\u0103 mereu \u00een aten\u0163ie. Sentimentul acesta minunat \u00eenal\u0163\u0103 spiritul, numai ura \u00eel dezumanizeaz\u0103.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mihaela MALEA STROE Sfaturi pentru eul din ad\u00e2nc Las\u0103 lucrurile a\u015fa cum sunt! \u00cen ordinea lor bine cump\u0103nit\u0103, \u00centre dorul<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":18,"featured_media":10070,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"colormag_page_container_layout":"default_layout","colormag_page_sidebar_layout":"default_layout","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"video_url":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[7,328],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19719"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/18"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=19719"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19719\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":19721,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/19719\/revisions\/19721"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/10070"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=19719"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=19719"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/ziarulderimnic.ro\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=19719"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}